How to keep your dream proposal a surprise

The key to keeping a proposal a surprise is planning! This may not be the most fun answer, but it’s definitely our secret to creating Toronto’s most luxurious proposals. Keep on reading to find out how.

There are so many logistics and details to plan out if you want to ensure that your proposal remains a surprise until the very last moment. It’s important to keep multiple things mind when coordinating a proposal, like what your partner would enjoy and appreciate during a proposal, setting up and decorating, wardrobe, timing, communicating with your partner and anyone else involved… The list goes on.

The room for error when planning a proposal little to none. That means you need to make sure everything aligns perfectly when you execute your dream proposal.

Hosting a proposal at The Ruby Manor takes away all the stress of planning the logistics of bringing your partner to the proposal location, what to tell her leading up to the proposal, and so much more.

With that said, there are some tips we want to share with you, so that you can make sure you keep your dream proposal a surprise for the person you’re about to propose to!


1. Keep your cover story short and sweet

You’ll need to tell your partner a white lie or two to get them to the proposal location, without revealing a proposal is about to happen. It's important to tell your partner a story to keep the proposal a surprise. Don't try to create an elaborate cover story, the more details you invent, the easier it will be to forget your story. Keep it simple, and something that you regularly do together, like meeting up for dinner or drinks.


2. Make sure everyone involved in the proposal is on the same page

When planning your proposal with us, we make sure that everyone involved in setting up and executing the proposal is on the same page and knows the story you're telling your partner. This way, no slip ups can happen. If you are inviting friends and family, be sure to also tell them the same story so that no one ruins the surprise. You never know who your partner might reach out to in the days before your proposal!


3. Be flexible!

If your partner is catching on that there's a proposal coming soon, don't stress! Be flexible, and either switch up the date of the proposal, or find a creative way to throw her off course. We have definitely helped guests come up with inventive ways to throw off the scent of their partner. If you’re feeling uneasy or if the timing is not right, definitely postponing the proposal itself is never a bad idea, if it’s feasible.


If keeping a proposal a surprise still sounds complicated to you, we're here to help you plan the perfect surprise proposal for the love of your life! Send an email over to rubymanorstudio@gmail.com with any questions you may have, or what you envision your proposal to look like, and we’ll help you get started.

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